I’ve bloghopped. I am not amused with the other posts.
I know people fall in love a lot of times. I’m eighteen. I’ve fallen for someone before and got hurt because of reasons like that. I understand how people feel when they’re falling in love and when they’re hurting, so I think I can tell everyone right now…
…to snap out of this stupidity in an instant.
I’m not really saying that writing about your feelings is annoying. I’m saying that you say you’re going to be okay, but those are lies. You post crapload of stuff about moving on when…YOU STILL POST A CRAPLOAD OF STUFF ABOUT MOVING ON! How can you move on when you’re always talking about how to move freakin’ on?! You’ll just keep remembering. It’s like “okay, here goes. I’m trying to forget you by writing about this feeling!!!” Are you waiting for me to serve you an ice cold slap on the fez? Because I can give you one for free as long as you’re doing this.
See, being sad about it is part of the feeling. But if you say you’re gonna forget about him, it’s not enough to forget the past. The feeling needs to be forgotten, too. Writing about it once is enough to cry away the bad feeling, but making more and more writings about it is a different thing. It’s more like keeping the pain, nourishing it, making it grow until it becomes a big monster. You need to understand how writing works. When you fall in love, it’s not like love is all that there is. We, girls, have brains. And we don’t just use it. We use it the right way.
I advise you to distract yourself. Play with yourself (don’t be dirty, pervert). These are the times that people becomes, liek, 30000x creative. Yeah, when I’m hurt or what, my creative juices come out so I take advantage of it. Maybe it’ll work for you, too?
That’s pretty much everything that I’d like to say. Stop the drama. If love left where it was once, there’s no reason for you to stay anymore. Don’t hope for a second chance. If there’s a second chance, it will come chasing you. So please stop this idiocracy. It’s killing me.
And take this from me, just for encouragement: When you’re hurt or what, and then you break down and cry, it’s cool you know. It proves that what you’ve had was sincere. Write it down, have emo days. Listen to songs, whatever. You might even do stupid things, but that’s still cool. BUT don’t overdo it. If it had been months after everything and you’re still in that condition, you’re uncool now. SO UNFREAKINCOOL.
Your heart is a muscle and therefore it’s supposed to be strong. :) So cut the crap and start partying with me. \:D/
hey im speechless! :)) very well said!!! I dont know what to comments else haha. This post makes me smile, haha seriously. LOVE THIS POST ;;] .
Will keep this as an advice form you. witwew. Time to move one! \\m//
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JEANU | oh-some Reply:
April 2nd, 2010 at 6:24 pm
@JEANU | oh-some, aww remove the “e” from “one” :)) haha. it should be “on” pardon me // :)
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ditto! :P ranting about the pain etc. would do more damage than good. I wish some girls would realize that coz they’re just making it harder for themselves. :( and it’s tad annoying too coz they start to sound like they’re whiny and helpless even though they’re not :pissed:
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Hmmmm I agree on some points, on some meh. But we all have our own opinion on things :) I believe, like you do, that it’s not right to be moping around because that person (the one you love) SHOULDN’T be the center of your universe. You have God, family, friends, studies, the list goes on. Yes, that person may be the most important one for you, but still, it ain’t love if you depended on him/her so much that you breakdown and just be dysfunctional when he/she left. HAHAHA.
But I can also say that some comments here are also right, that it could be there way of coping and surviving the whole hurt trauma :)
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I super agree! :ok: your post got me thinking also…although i’ve wrote most of my feelings in my secret diary and still when i read about those things makes me feel irritated of myself and yeah i’ve learned from my past experiences and there’s still alot of things to learn… and you are right, how can you move on when you keep talking about moving on :lol: :ok: yeah!
I love this last part. “Your heart is a muscle and therefore it’s supposed to be strong. :) So cut the crap and start partying with me. \:D/” :D
oh and i get a twitter authentication that pops out every time i open your site that requires username and pass but i just close it but just telling you about it. :)
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